Personal Wellbeing

Feeling Self-Conscious? Get Rid of These 10 Phrases

October 5, 2022
The Wellness Tribe

Confidence is the key! You can enhance your work-life balance, relationships, and general quality of life by being confident and believing in yourself. Although self-worth is undoubtedly an important component of confidence, it is not the same thing as confidence.

While self-confidence is about being driven and believing in yourself, self-worth is more closely tied to forgiving and embracing oneself. They are, therefore, essentially two sides of the same coin. But both are essential to having a positive connection with yourself and feeling good about yourself.

But we all have that inner voice that influences everything we say or do. If we let it, it might undermine our self-confidence, make us feel inferior, or both. In the end, we find ourselves failing to reach our goals.

If you want to think more positively and feel more confident, here are 10 negative phrases to stop using.

1. "I must complete it."

Instead, say: "I get to do that."

Your attitude will significantly alter if you substitute just one little word. You start to see things more as opportunities than as obligations as a result. So even though the work is unpleasant, it may help you learn new things and lead to opportunities.

2. "I cannot accomplish it"

Instead, say: "I'll do my best to accomplish that."

Keep going until you've even started! When you convince yourself that you can attempt, you not only give yourself an opportunity to succeed but also lower your bar for success by not having unreasonable expectations.

3. "I ought to do it."

Instead, say: "I'll take care of it." (Or, depending on your perspective, "won't do")

The word "should" is restrictive and puts pressure on us. Regain control by doing so. Get rid of the "should" and make your own decisions by deciding whether or not to do anything.

4. "Why am I going through this?"

Instead, ask: "What am I learning from this?"

You may transform something that is bothering or disturbing you into something that can lead you to more extraordinary things by asking yourself what you are learning. You're merely looking for the positive in what can be a difficult situation; you're not moaning.

5. "I should never have."

What to say instead: "I know [X] because I did it."

When you reframe this idea, you start to consider the positive outcomes that resulted from actions you first believed you shouldn't have taken. For example, you could have made a new friend or learned something admirable about yourself.

6. "I messed up."

What to say instead: "This effort failed."

Consequently, it's possible that an endeavor you undertook went differently than planned. You either still need to obtain the desired promotion or the new customer. However, you are being harsh to yourself if you tell yourself that you failed, and that's it. Keep in mind that there will be future chances.

7. If only I'd done [X]

How about saying nothing?

Everybody has had "if only" moments. For example, "If only I had brought up my suggestion at that meeting," or "If only I hadn't responded in that manner to that interview question." However, this is irrational reasoning. You're simply complaining and coming up with reasons—you're not learning from the past.

8. "This is just too difficult."

Instead, Say: "I don't comprehend this right now." 

You are presenting a new difficulty as an unchanging reality when you tell yourself right away that you will never be able to understand it. This implies that you're gently telling yourself that you can't develop or evolve, which is absurd, of course. We are all still growing.

9. "It isn't fair,"

What to say instead: "I can handle it regardless!"

Yes, there are moments when life seems unfair, but that doesn't mean you have to keep telling yourself that mantra repeatedly until you give up. Instead, face that perceived injustice head-on and search for answers that will lead you to your desired destination.

10. "It won't ever change."

What to say instead: "I can adjust how I handle this."

Another instance of moving from the passive to the active is this. First, take control of the circumstance. Do you believe it is immutable? Then alter your perspective on it and your ideas on it!

Occupational Wellbeing

Navigate Virtual Burnout: Wellness Centered Guide to Thriving

January 10, 2023
The Wellness Tribe Team

Virtual meetings have become a staple in our new normal of remote work, but they can also be a source of frustration and burnout. From background distractions to feelings of isolation, the virtual meeting struggle is all too real. In this article, we will dive into the common struggles of virtual meetings and provide practical tips for managing them. 

From setting boundaries to finding ways to stay engaged, we will give you the tools you need to make virtual meetings less of a struggle and more productive. So join us as we explore the virtual meeting struggle and discover ways to stay sane in this new world of remote work.

The Zoom-ed Out Zone

Navigate Virtual Burnout: Wellness Centered Guide to Thriving
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As we stare into our screens for hours on end, it's easy to fall into a state of mental fatigue. The monotony of staring at the same faces, the lack of engagement, and constant interruptions can leave us feeling stressed and burnt out. Virtual meeting fatigue is real, and staying focused and engaged can be hard during long virtual meetings. 

It's not uncommon to find yourself daydreaming, checking your phone, or multitasking during virtual meetings. This constant state of distraction can lead to decreased productivity and increased stress levels. But don't worry; there are ways to combat the Zoom-ed Out Zone and make virtual meetings more manageable.

A Virtual Escape

"Virtual meetings are like a game of telephone, by the time the message reaches the end, it's usually distorted." - Unknown

Virtual meetings can be a real challenge, but there are practical ways to manage the difficulties they bring. To make the most of your virtual meetings, here are some tips to keep in mind:

  • Setting boundaries: It's important to set boundaries with your colleagues and family members to make sure you have a dedicated workspace and time for virtual meetings.
  • Creating a dedicated workspace: Set up a dedicated workspace with a comfortable chair and good lighting. This will help you stay focused and engaged during virtual meetings.
  • Finding ways to stay engaged: Try to find ways to stay engaged during virtual meetings, such as by participating in discussions, asking questions, or taking notes.
  • Self-care strategies: Make time for self-care and maintain a positive mindset during virtual meetings. This can include taking breaks, stretching, or practicing deep breathing exercises.
  • Prioritize your schedule: Make sure you're not overloading yourself with too many virtual meetings in one day, and try to schedule breaks in between the meetings.

Implementing these practical tips and strategies can make virtual meetings more manageable and less of a struggle. Remember to take care of yourself and maintain a positive mindset during virtual meetings, and you'll be able to stay sane and productive.

The Virtual Meeting Revolution

Navigate Virtual Burnout: Wellness Centered Guide to Thriving
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Implementing practical tips and strategies for virtual meetings can revolutionize the way we experience them. By setting boundaries, creating a dedicated workspace, and finding ways to stay engaged, we can make virtual meetings less of a struggle and more enjoyable. Self-care strategies such as taking breaks and maintaining a positive mindset can also greatly improve the virtual meeting experience.

But the revolution doesn't stop there; we can make virtual meetings more interactive and productive by using the latest technologies and tools. By using virtual reality, breakout rooms, and interactive polls, we can make virtual meetings more engaging and create a sense of togetherness.

Conclusion

We hope this article has been a beacon of hope in the stormy seas of virtual meetings. We urge you to share your own tips and strategies for staying sane during virtual meetings with us, and let's make virtual meetings a thing of the past. It's time to take control of our virtual experiences and make virtual meetings work for us, not against us. Let's revolutionize the virtual meeting experience and make it more enjoyable and productive for all.

Emotional Wellbeing

How to Deal with Burnout: A Guide for Team Leaders

September 25, 2022
The Wellness Tribe

Many employees feel the shift to remote work has been a welcome change from the in-office routine despite the uncertainty surrounding COVID-19. In contrast, for others, the disadvantages of remote work became apparent as weeks turned into months and months into a year.

If you have access to the internet 24 hours a day, seven days a week, and don't need to commute, separating work and personal life can be challenging. Late night work and weekend work become more common. Our survey found that 77% of employees have experienced burnout. If staffing levels are cut, workloads increase and burnout quickly become a reality.

The good news is that it is preventable. Employee engagement through an employee wellness program is one important component. Employees that are engaged are happier and more productive. Greater resiliency benefits the organisation as well. However, effective tools and consistent efforts are required to keep staff engaged, reduce burnout, and guarantee that everyone is working toward the same goals.

Here are six strategies to help employees avoid burnout, increase employee engagement, and build resiliency.

Facilitate Better Communication

Facilitate Better Communication
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It is necessary to communicate with your employees to understand their perspectives, difficulties, and perceptions of the organisation and management. Assessments should not be restricted to once a year. More frequency and consistency are crucial in mixed work environments, where employees may feel like they are working in a vacuum. Employees should be able to communicate through all channels available to avoid mental health issues that may arise from isolation.

Small chat groups and meet-ups like virtual lunchrooms and happy hours, as well as one-on-one meetings centred on progress and goals, are all examples of communication touchstones. You can create connections through them, unwind, reduce loneliness, and spot other people who are struggling. But, again, this could help you intervene before things get worse.

"Leadership is about making others better as a result of your presence and making sure that impact lasts in your absence." - Sheryl Sandberg

Allow Employees to Take Time Off.

In many organisations, downtime must be considered to meet demand. Although the redistribution of work may be complex, downtime cannot be ignored. Provide employees with the option of taking breaks, personal days, or vacations when necessary.

Your company's typical working hours should be clearly communicated to employees. In addition, they should be encouraged to turn off their phones and laptops when they are not working. Recognising that they have the right to separate work and personal life will encourage employees to do so. In order to motivate employees to do these things, you might want to introduce some employee wellness initiatives. 

Even short breaks throughout the day can help improve their mood and productivity. Make it clear to your team members that they should not check their emails while on vacation. Find someone to cover their position if it is essential. Upon their return, they will be well-rested and ready to work.

Make Collaboration Easier by Investing in Tools.

Make Collaboration Easier by Investing in Tools.
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Retention requires high levels of engagement and communication. Employees don't quit their jobs because they're awful. They leave lousy managers behind them. Organisational goals are more likely to be achieved by employees who clearly understand their responsibilities and are supported in fulfilling them.

Using employee engagement and performance management technology can help to boost productivity, knowledge sharing, and cooperation. Engagement will close the gap by providing coaching and feedback to both in-office and remote employees, connecting individual and team objectives to the organisation's strategic priorities.

Concentrate on the “Why”

Burnout is typically caused by a gap between a person's values and tasks. Although you are worried and exhausted, you continue to work, forgetting the reasons you joined the company or job in the first place. There is a risk of harm from it. 

Creating a shared sense of why is a task for any leader must determine why we are motivated to complete the goal. As a leader, it is your responsibility to energise your team. Remember the purpose and why it is crucial for the business and your customers. People are more likely to be satisfied with their jobs if they share common beliefs and connections.

Commit to Mental Health and Empathy

There is increasing recognition that mental health is vital for individuals, groups, and society. Moreover, those their leaders support through empathy are more likely, to be honest and accurate. 

When companies build stronger relationships with their employees, employees report it improved mental and physical health by 23% and 17%, respectively. Companies that provide holistic support to their employees report an increase of 21% in high performers. Additionally, employees feel heard and validated, resulting in a more productive work environment and a happier mind body soul.

Prioritise Your Own Health.

Before you can help your team members manage their stress, you must work on your own. Consider how you can help your employees get what they need instead of hunkering down and focusing" on your task.  

The best start is by taking care of your physical and emotional health first; you need to take care of yourself. Get enough sleep at night, eat healthfully, exercise regularly, meditate, and find another person to vent to who isn't "your boss.". Taking care of oneself is more than a luxury; it is a necessity.

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